hot tips for dating & marriage + should i be friends w guys? (w todd wagner)

December 3, 2025

This week we’re joined again by friend & pastor Todd Wagner & things are heating up. Nicoletta gets real time dating advice & Todd shares wisdom from decades of calling men higher. 

This is an ep that will make you laugh, cry, & press repeat. Let us know what you think & as always, share w a friend!


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Key takeaways

  • You can be friends with guys, but don’t let him have all of the benefits of you without having the responsibilities of getting the benefits of you!

  • You aren’t lacking when you’re single

  • Treasures don’t do the hunting 👀

  • If you can’t find security & wholeness while you’re single, you will have a terrible marriage

  • Your testimony is so important; the beauty that you carry in your singleness is preaching to the sufficiency of Christ!

  • When you run after the Lord, that’s the best chance of meeting a guy doing the same thing


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Love you holy babes, 

Laura & Nico

 

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